First Date Tips You Can Use to Make a Great First Impression

Going out on a first date can be nerve wrecking. There are so many things to be anxious about. What will you say? What will you wear? Where will you go? These types of concerns can definitely cause worry but if you keep several first date essentials in mind, you can make the experience a very pleasant one. Let's take a look at some of the most crucial things that you should take care of before even meeting your date.

• Hygiene - This goes without saying but still important to review. If you wear cologne or perfume, don't over do it. Oral hygiene is a must. Floss, brush, and use mouthwash. Also chew gum or pop a mint right before meeting up. Keep gum or mints handy for after meals or when your mouth feels dry. If you assume you have bad breath, you probably do, so don't take a chance.
• Dress the part - You want to look your best so depending on the venue, be sure to dress appropriately. If you are doing fine dining, dress your best. If it's casual be comfortable but neat. Presentation is important. Wear clothing that makes you feel confident.
• Eat safe food - This means avoid food that may cause stomach upset. Good examples are usually dairy based products or spicy food. If you know something may upset your stomach afterwards, don't eat it all together. You don't want an upset stomach breaking your focus on getting to know your date.
• Carry plenty of cash - It is never safe to assume that your date will pay for everything. Always offer to pay some, if not all. Chances are your date will pick up the bill or at least offer to go half-and-half. If your date buys, offer to buy coffee or dessert.

It's also necessary to be good at keeping a conversation going. There will be periods of awkward silence but keeping them to a minimum is relatively easy. All you have to do is continue to ask questions. Keep in mind that many people truly like talking about themselves. Ask the right questions and you can have hours of good conversation. Here are some topics that work well:

• Family life
• Childhood
• Career
• Travel
• Goals and aspirations
• Sports
• Physical fitness
• Food
• Favorite hangouts

Keep your conversation light. Don't drill your date with questions. When you feel the need to ask something, then ask. Also, don't be scared to voice your opinion or share your experience. Your date should want to get to know you just as badly as you are wanting to know her/him.